"My" Irish laddie just dropped the bomb on me that he's married...damn SOB! Several weeks after I met him he actually volunteered the info to me that he was divorced (for cheating, of all things - I shoulda known!), but he sort of neglected to mention the fact that he remarried another woman in Ireland. When he told me and I asked him why he was dishonest to me he said he technically didn't lie because I didn't ASK him specifically if he had remarried...geez, I didn't think I had to! He wanted to know if his being married was a problem since she's there and we're here and I told him that yeah, it was a BIG problem - I absolutely positively do NOT date married men.
Needless to say, he's outta my life. I just hope she catches him someday and gives him the boot. I suppose that's why he does it overseas, though... :(((
I still adore Irish accents, though. ;)
Needless to say, he's outta my life. I just hope she catches him someday and gives him the boot. I suppose that's why he does it overseas, though... :(((
I still adore Irish accents, though. ;)
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Mon, April 18, 2005 - 7:54 PMHARSH. The sin of omission is almost worse than an outright lie, in my opinion. It has the absolute same intent to decieve. What a childish excuse. And what a poor excuse for a man!!
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Wed, April 20, 2005 - 7:13 PMBad form!!!
I'm getting divorced from a jerk like that. He wasn't married to anyone else - that I know of - but his half-truthing days (made that word up all by myself...) are over with me.
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Tue, April 19, 2005 - 2:12 AMHello IndiGoa.
I can assure you we are not all like that.
I can also assure you that I am not, nor ever have been, engaged or married.
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Thu, April 21, 2005 - 2:10 AMOh, I try to remember that not all guys everywhere are like that. I've known a few terribly deceptive American guys as well. But I think he did know that I couldn't make a stand against that fabulous accent.lol
Resistance...is...futile...
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Update - now that he's figured out he's in the major dog house with me, he's suddenly changed his story and now he's *not* married, nor ever has been. He says he was just joking...
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Thu, April 21, 2005 - 4:17 PM> Update - now that he's figured out he's in the major dog house with me, he's suddenly changed his story and now he's *not* married, nor ever has been. He says he was just joking...
Yeah right - I have this big orange bridge for sale - very pretty and you can buy it for $5 a day on the installment plan.
This all makes me really happy I'm openly - poly/non-monogamous - what you see is what you get. -
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Fri, April 22, 2005 - 12:29 AMBingo - as long as I know up front what the game is, I can at least then decide for myself whether or not I want to participate. :) -
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Tue, April 26, 2005 - 10:01 PMAmen sister!!! why is honesty so hard to find these days? thats all I ever asked for. Well, that an accent,, but please! lol
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Wed, April 27, 2005 - 1:46 AMOK, excuse me while I go off on a rant, but...
Honesty is hard to find, because guys who are honest are single.
I was recently told by a good friend of mine that the reason I was single was because I was to honest, and that I needed to "change my game". When I told her I didn't play a game, but that I was just myself, she said "That's where the problem lies"
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Thu, April 28, 2005 - 12:03 AMNow, why can't there be more guys like you?<g> I've always been incredibly annoyed by people who play games, because eventually the truth is going to come out if they stick around long enough...as I've so abundantly witnessed recently.lol -
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Thu, April 28, 2005 - 5:14 AMI'm so sorry things turned out this way. When I read your post about meeting this guy, and you said he was "unreliable" (-at least I *think* that's the word you used-), and you described some of what the problem was, my gut reaction was that he was either married or a bigamist. (Possibly both.) They tend to be great liars.
I was hoping I was wrong. *sigh*
Good luck with future guys. And I have to say, I much prefer complete honesty, and am always honest with everyone I meet. (Sometimes *too* honest! ;P )
*hug*
Perhaps you would have more luck finding a good guy at a Ren. Faire? It's a thought, anyway. :)
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Sun, May 8, 2005 - 4:56 PM"I was recently told by a good friend of mine that the reason I was single was because I was to honest, and that I needed to "change my game". When I told her I didn't play a game, but that I was just myself, she said "That's where the problem lies" "
Excuse me I'm not trying to insult your friend but COUGHbullshitCOUGH!
You just keep being honest......and don't ever LISTEN TO THAT KIND OF SHITE! GRRRRRRRRRRRR
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Mon, May 9, 2005 - 9:00 AMAgreed! If you're not yourself and that's how you attract a man, how do you expect to ever BE yourself afterwards? It doesn't make sense.
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